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How to get people to write in your Wedding Guest Book

June 01, 2024

5 Wedding Guest Book Ideas: tips for getting people to write in your book

Tips and tricks to ensure your Wedding Guest Book fills up

This blog post is full of easy to action tips for making sure your wedding guests actually write in your guest book. I'm sharing insider know-how and secret strategies for making sure your loved ones take the time to express their thoughts in a Wedding Guest Book you'll want to return to time and again over the course of your lives.

Read on for: 

  • things you can do to prepare before your wedding day
  • one or two simple things to do on the day
  • plus a few suggestions for beating the post-honeymoon come down, too.

 

Wedding Guest Book bound in white leather with natural silk ribbon
Wedding Guest Book handmade in leather with silk ribbon

What to do before your wedding day:

1. Gather supplies

Pens - more pens than you could ever imagine. Because they will disappear! Biros will do just fine, and you can often find jolly ones that co-ordinate with your wedding theme colours at well known craft shops. For a finer experience you may prefer to provide ballpoint pens, or even a special fountain pen. Any pen will do, as long as it is not a marker like a Sharpie, as markers may show through to the other side of the page.

Loose sheets for guests to write on. You will be suprised at how incredibly hesitant your guests can be about writing directly into a book. They may suffer from blank page syndrome. Or they may be unecessarily ashamed of their penmanship (after all, how much handwriting does anyone do these days?) or they're simply struggling to put into words the overwhelming happiness they feel for you.

By providing loose sheets, you're making it easier for your guests. They know they can always toss their first attempt in the bin and start again! Make sure the sheets are smaller than the pages of your book. So, if your book is A4 landscape (the same size as a sheet of normal printer paper), use A5 landscape loose sheets (half a sheet). You could use ordinary cartridge paper, handmade paper for extra tactility or mix it up with coloured papers.

Wedding Guest writes in the scrap book, a hand crafted book from bound by hand
Loose sheets or cards give people confidence to write in your wedding guest book.

Writing prompts - a short list of simple prompts will also inspire guests to make a confident contribution. You could place a printed message in a picture frame, or display the prompts on an artist's easel, as we did. How about:

We will treasure anything you write, draw or doodle in our book. Please take up as much space as you'd like. If you're struggling for ideas, how about...

  • How did we meet?
  • If you could make one wish for us, what would it be?
  • What's one piece of advice you could give us?
2. Prepare the wedding guest book

Be a cheater. Okay, this is a little sneaky, but it works. You know we talked about guests' hesitancy to write in your book? There's also the strange, often observed tendency to write something self-effacingly miniscule in a corner and take up as little space as possible. Well, get someone to write a message ahead of time ACROSS A WHOLE PAGE. This is the page you will leave open on the day. Clever, huh?

'Leave page blank for photograph' - if you're planning to use your book as a memory book - aka scrapbook - with photos, stationery samples, pressed flowers, honeymoon postcards, etc, this tip is for you. Print or write out a few dozen sheets with the words 'leave page blank for photograph'. And again, make sure these sheets are smaller than your book's page size. Use re-positionable glue dots to fix them to various pages throughout the entire book. This encourages guests to write on more than the first few pages of the book.

Idea for your Wedding scrapbook / memory book / guest book
With a little forethought, you can make sure your Guest Book has space for photos, cards and stationery, as well as handwritten messages from your loved ones.

On the day: guest book table and timings

3. Set up the guest book table

Yes, dedicate an entire table to your guest book. You want your guests to take their time and not feel overlooked (i.e. judged), so make sure there are two chairs there, too. Drape the table in a beautiful cloth, place the book in the centre of the table, open at the page you've sneakily already had someone write in. On either side of the book (in front of each chair), cluster together a pen pot, the loose sheets, and the writing prompts. Finally, place a floral decoration and a framed photograph of you two on the table, to draw people's attention.

Wedding Guest writes in handmade guest book
Set up a dedicated table with prompts and props, so your guests feel comfortable and confident writing in your wedding guest book.

4. Speeches, speeches.

Before everyone gets a little tipsy or eats too much to move, draw your guests' attention to the Guest Book table. Emphasise how thrilled you will be to be able to treasure their words for many years to come, and how important every single one of them is to you. Reassure them that heartfelt is good, brief is fine, and that there are no prizes for the best contribution.

What to do after your honeymoon

5. Banish post-honeymoon blues with some quality wedding scrapbook time

Make a couple of dates (remember those?) with your loved one, schedule them into your calendars. Because you'll be surprised at how quickly normal life takes over once you're out of your wedding bliss bubble.

First, choose which photos you want to have printed whether they're from your professional photographer and / or you're asking friends and family for theirs. Don't leave it 'til another day - order those prints now. Then gather up your favourite cards, stationery samples, pressed flowers etc. Keep them all safe until the photos arrive and you can have your next date.

On your second scrapbook date, collect up some glue dots, photo corners, washi tape, spray mount, pritt stick - whatever you want - and get sticking in! There's no right or wrong way, just enjoy the process.

How to make a wedding scrapbook
Wedding Memory Book: A4 large

How to choose a Wedding Guest Book

For some, a Guest Book / Memory Book is absolutely on their 'wedmin' list of things to sort out from the moment the engagement is announced. But for others the Guest Book might be an afterthought after they've already burned through a fair bit of your budget.

But let me tell you, whether it was a cheap and cheerful book from a well-known craft store, or even the lovely book you bought in a high-end luxury retail store is NOT going to thrill you in years to come. Because it is mass-produced by a machine, it will look like everyone else's, it will probably become tatty and it will be out of fashion - and that wouldn't be a kind reflection of your marriage, would it?

For a book you can enjoy leafing through forevermore, a book you'll want to come back to time and time again, choose hand crafted. Choose something made with archival, high quality materials in a timeless style. A book made by a professional craftsperson. Even better if it's a bespoke personalised book - something unique, made just for you. A real investment piece.

Scroll down to view my collection of Wedding Guest Books and Memory Books. Some are 'ready to ship' with the standard 'Happily ever after' titlepage. If you have some time, they can all be personalised with text of your choice instead. They've been used and loved by couples the world over, and featured in several bridal and wedding magazines.

Personalised Wedding Guest Book bound by hand in white leather and rustic linen ribbonPersonalised Wedding Guest Book: white leather & linen

What will you do to remember your wedding?

I hope you've found my top 5 tips for making a memorable Wedding Guest Book helpful. They should ensure that your investment piece is worthy of all the love you felt on your wedding day and all the adventures you're having together during your marriage. Along with your photographs and cards - which you can stick in a Wedding Memory Book - your book will help you remember all the special moments from the day. Because trust me, it all goes by in a blur. 

If you've got any tips you'd like to share, or have a question I can help you with, pop into the comments section below! You're also welcome to reach out to me directly - my details are below.

With all good wishes for your wedding day and beyond,

Susan the bookbinder

contact form | info@boundbyhand.co.uk | +44 7748 759371

Main, first, second & fourth images are copyright Society Thirteen Brand Photography, 2023

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